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About Love, Relationships, and Infidelity.
Are You Going to Have an Affair? [Quiz]
Are you making decisions that invite the possibility of betrayal? Is your relationship with your partner vulnerable to infidelity? While there are no guarantees in life, there are certain patterns that develop over time. This quiz is based on the Gottman-Rusbult-Glass...
Defining Infidelity: Sexual Alchemy
In this last of the four-part series on defining infidelity, I want to share with you the third common component in affairs- sexual alchemy. What is sexual alchemy? Sexual alchemy is the term that Esther Perel uses to describe the erotic nature of affairs. The term is...
Defining Infidelity: Emotional Involvement
As we continue our conversation about “What is infidelity?”, we arrive at the next common component of betrayal- emotional involvement. Whether it’s admitted or not, most affairs register an emotional response to some degree or another. At the extreme end of the...