The defense often given for these types of relationships is, “we’ve never even met in person,” but don’t be fooled- an online affair can be just as devastating as one in vivo.

Where we invest, not only our time but also our emotional energy, is important. If we spend significant time and energy outside our marriage, it leaves little to keep us together.

As Esther Perel says, “The kiss we only imagine giving can be more powerful than hours of actual lovemaking.”

Maintaining an online dating profile may seem harmless, but the neverending question of “what if?” can prevent us from truly connecting with our partner.

Not to mention it can lead our partner to feel like a mere placeholder while you wait for something better…

Too few couples have honest conversations about what it means to maintain fidelity in their relationships.

Our conversations are often summed up in 5 words: “I catch you, you’re dead.”

We owe it to ourselves and our partners to have an open dialogue. I can help you get the conversation started.

Not only is healing possible, but you can have an even better relationship with your partner after affair recovery.

They work on things like communication skills and teaching the couple to “fight better.”

They completely miss the potential for relationship evolution that is brought about by diving deep into the infidelity itself.

An affair can be the catalyst that brings a couple closer than they have ever been before.